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Listening. The Kindest Act

Why do some of us trust our innermost thoughts and feelings to strangers? Is it because they have no vested interest in our lives? Is it because they bear no responsibility, no guilt and have no obligation to support? 

We may not want to share that which might be interpreted as weakness with those who are closest to us. We think it is in our best interest to appear strong. And so we protect our vulnerability with pretense and secrecy. We may fear retribution, criticism or embarrassment.

No one wants to be reminded of an indiscretion or a failing. No one wants his or her most personal feelings dismissed out of hand. So they share with strangers who are willing to listen.

However, in today's world, and all too often, people are sharing their feelings on the internet which is foolish and can cause both physical and mental harm. One's personal life should be considered precious and the best place tell all is with a professional who is trained to listen and advise. 

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Confession is good for the soul. But choose your Confessor wisely.

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